Thursday, June 26, 2008

Brotherly (and sisterly) love




As Carlyle has become more mobile recently, she has taken a keen interest in everything her big brother says and does. There is, obviously, some resistance to this interest, but what we've been amazed at is how attentive and protective Bo is of Carlyle at times.

It was fun for me to take them both down to the park recently. Bo, of course, made his usual rounds on every swing, ladder, climbing wall, and sand box. And Carlyle never took her eyes off of him.

As you can see, Bo insisted on pushing his sister all the way back home. And if she could have found a way to turn around in her stroller (which she tried), she would have watched him all the way back as well...

Thursday, June 19, 2008

Not your typical Mother-in-Law...

Soon after Amy and I started dating, I was introduced to her mother, Nancy Collins. Now any of you who've met Nancy know that there's something special about meeting her. She has one of those personalities that is not easily forgotten. We all ask strangers and closest friend alike, "How are you doing?" but when Nancy asks that question, there is a genuine interest in your answer.

I am sure when some people meet their potential "in-laws", they secretly wonder if the one they're with will turn out like these parents - in my case, I certainly hope so. And so far, Amy has not disappointed... my beautiful wife is kind, thoughtful, generous to a fault, brilliant, loving, and talented - and much of this can be attributed to her upbringing with Jim and Nancy. She favors her mother more and more every day. And now, I'm thankful to say, my daughter is beginning to favor her too...

Now, soon after meeting my eventual mother-in-law, I learned of her desire for hospice service. Few people have a true "calling" in this world, but this was Nancy's, and she had a long-term vision for that calling - a vision that in the past few years has been realized in the building of Sanctuary Hospice House in Tupelo, MS. This was a calling that Nancy would have undertaken (and did) with little or no recognition. That is, until now...

I won't repeat what can be seen and read below, but recently Nancy was nominated by those closest to this project in Tupelo and has won not only the 2008 Mississippi Governor's Initiative for Volunteer Excellence (GIVE) Award, but was also nominated and won one of 100 national Jefferson Awards for volunteer service. At the ceremony in Washington DC this past Tuesday, Nancy then won one of five annual Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis Awards for public service, one of the nation's highest honors for humanitarian work (to put this into perspective, as you can see below Joe Lieberman won another of these awards).

She truly has a heart for her family, friends, most of all for her Lord, but also for whomever that next person is that she asks "how are you doing?".

Below is a local news piece about Nancy's involvement in the hospice house and the actual Associated Press article that ran this past Wednesday in national papers across the country.


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Lieberman, hospice owner win volunteerism awards

By DEBORAH HASTINGS

Sen. Joseph Lieberman and Nancy Collins, a Mississippi woman who established a rural hospice offering physical and religious care to the terminally ill, were among more than a dozen recipients Tuesday of the Jefferson Awards, given for national and local public service.

Lieberman, a Connecticut independent, was honored for "thoughtful, principled and effective service" including helping to create the Department of Homeland Security following the Sept. 11, 2001, terrorist attacks, as well as working for campaign finance reform.

Collins of Tupelo, Miss., was selected for her establishment of Sanctuary Hospice House, a nonprofit, ecumenical Christian facility modeled after a hospice Collins visited in Mexico City. The hospice has taken in more than 550 people.

The Jefferson Awards were founded in 1972 by Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis, Sen. Robert Taft Jr. (grandson of President William Howard Taft) and presidential economic adviser Sam Beard. Designed to be a Nobel Prize for public and community service, the awards spotlight national leaders and volunteers at the local level.

Other winners during Tuesday's celebration dinner at Washington's Union Station:

_Public service by a private citizen: Retired District of Columbia police detective Edward Michael Jagen, creator of the Good Knight Child Empowerment Network, which provides training to children on fending off abuse and sexual advances from adults.

_Public service benefiting the disadvantaged: Darell Hammond, leader of KaBOOM! Working with communities and corporate volunteers, Hammond helps bring playgrounds and skate parks to underprivileged areas across the country. Since his organization was founded in 1995 more than 2,000 recreation centers have been built and renovated.

_Public service by individual 35 and under: Ocean Robbins, founder in 1990 at age 16 of Youth for Environmental Sanity, committed to social and environmental change. Robbins, who lives in northern California, also sponsors camps for young activists and has spoken to thousands of high school and college students.

Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis Recipients (nominated through local media outlets):

_Lia Rowley, creator of Children's Village, a nonprofit organization in Santa Rosa, Calif., that provides housing to children needing long-term foster care, with an emphasis on keeping siblings together.

_Hank and Debbie Perret, operators of the Miles Perret Foundation in Lafayette, La., which offers counseling and financial support to cancer patients and their families.

_Jackie Betz, Erin Drischler and Megan Neuf, seniors at Shaler Area High School in Pittsburgh, Pa., who obtained a county grant to educate young women on the high rate of sexual assaults against female freshmen college students.

_Harry Vogler of Colorado, who has raised more than $60,000 to help fund the Emily Griffith Center, a 100-acre ranch that provides treatment and education services to severely abused, neglected and mentally ill children and their families.

Thursday, June 12, 2008

Special thank you

No new pictures this time...

As another milestone in our lives unfolds with Amy finishing her OB-Gyn residency and the fact that we've now been married 8 years (as of Tuesday the 10th), I am astounded and humbled by how we got to where we are today. God's grace is good. And part of that grace has been poured out on us through our seperate families.

Just wanted to send a heart-felt thank you to our families. Far too often we get "too busy" to thank those who mean the most to us, do the most for us, and got us where we are.

Amy and I want to say a special thank you to our immediate families.
To our parents, thank you for all the times you keep our kids while we're on call, moonlighting, or just need a night to ourselves. Thank you for the "loans" you've given us over the years. Thank you for the free advice on every subject under the sun, from finances to child-rearing to home repairs and decorating. Thank you for taking all the late-night emergency calls whether it was for last minute child-care or just to advise us on the next, biggest crisis in our lives. Thank you for it all.

To our siblings, thank you for the simple calls to check on us and our children. Thank you for the times you came to help us watch Bo and Carlyle. Thank you for adding the perfect amount of comic relief for us when we get together over holidays, weekends, or vacations. Thank you especially for yours and your family's involvement in our children's lives - what a blessing that hardly a night goes by that we don't pray with Bo and thank God INDIVIDUALLY for Mike, Kelly, Caroline, William, Mary Karen, Adam, Kristi, Drew, Tucker, Lane, "big" Bo, Conner, Josh, Becky, Alex, Elizabeth, and Jonathan --> and Bo reminds me if I miss ANY of you.

To our grandparents, thank you for your years of support before we ever started our own family but even more so, thank you for your prayers and support now that we are "on our own" - hardly... Certainly a blessing too for our children to know that they are prayed for daily by 5 great-grandparents.

To our extended families (aunts, uncles, great-aunts, great-uncles, first/second/and third cousins) who keep up with us through this site or through other family, thank you too for your prayers for our little family. It is always good to see your families' pictures when I get them and always good to get updates on how you're doing. We miss those of you we rarely get to see...

To our friends, those of you closest to us - a very special thank you for putting up with us during these past few years. Thank you for understanding that unanswered calls, unreturned messages, infrequent visits, and "I'm going to have to run" don't mean that your friendships are not important to us. Thank you even more for cherishing the times when we can answer or make the phone call to visit, when we can come to visit, or when we can share time together. Those are our favorite times too.

To all of you who have helped Amy and I during her school and residency, we thank you. Without your prayers and support, we could not have even dreamt of getting here.
Still a little more time to put in at the University for both of us, but wanted to use this occasion to say a thank you to all of you.
More later on Amy's accomplishment...

Tuesday, June 3, 2008

Smile!

How beautiful is this???